So My ex-friend Did apologize for keeping me up all night, but only after alot of back and forth dialog of him twisting everything i typed to him. i know he wanted me to talk in voice because i did not have a way of recording it. if i did. but that is not where it ended. i figured i would talk to him only if he would first apoligize. once he did i tried to reach out by voice. that is when the yelling started. i am not going to put up with his yelling i later told him that so he repetedly called me by skype untill i would pick up. i told him that he had to calm down first. he even called me by phone.
that is where the manipulation started. i know it was manipulation because i recognized it as such.my mom used the exact same tactics when i was growing up. that is how i reconized it.
you see once he calmed down and let me talk without interruptions i told him the exact reason why i was mad at him. until he started twisting my words into something "simpler that he could understand" but in doing so he lost all the reasons i was mad at him in the first place. and he saw it as reasons i was "restricting" him and his abilities. when what i said was if he does something i wanted him to think it through first and follow through with it or tell me if he changes his mind before it's too late.
honestly, i don't think our relationship will survive until my birthday if it is not gone already. because the man needs to learn how to listen and comprehend properly if he ever wants to be in my life once i turn 37. i guess that will be the point of no return if i have to make one.
i for one will not put up with manipulation and i will not dish it out anymore. i am done. if i get mad i get mad that is my right and i will express why i am mad if someone wants to make me happy they cannot. because i am the only one who has control over me.
he can get mad all he wants but i will not talk to him when he is. nuff said.
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